Overcoming

It's not what you think.  Sure we are always trying to overcome something, but I just read a great article in the Ensign.  It was called "The right time to Marry."  I specifically liked to section given by Elder Tingey given in another devotional.  He talked about overcoming challenges to marriage.  His specific points were:

“1. There may seem to be less encouragement for returned missionaries to get married. If that is your understanding, it is false. All returned missionaries should be encouraged when they return home to remain active in the Church, secure an education, acquire employment skills, and move in the direction of finding an eternal companion.

“2. Some young men feel they cannot meet the expectations of some young women. … Proper communication can address that uncertainty.

“3. An emphasis on education or career may put marriage in a lesser role. Marriage, education, and career can go together. A career without family, where family is possible, is a tragedy.

“4. Do not let your life be simply an existence that is fun or selfish. Life is more than an amusement park. Do not be hooked on obtaining possessions. Accept responsibility.

“5. A negative perception of marriage … may deter one from marriage. Some say, ‘Why get married when there are so many divorces?’ The existence of divorce does not mean you cannot have a happy and successful marriage. Don’t let the actions of others make your decisions. Determine that your marriage will not be a failure.

“6. Some put off marriage for financial reasons. Postponing marriage until money is sufficient to sustain a stylish living is not wise. So much of life together—struggling, adjusting, and learning to cope with life’s challenges—is lost when that happens.”

 

We all have hang ups when it comes to marriage.  I feel like I am doing my best and dating all I can.  Now if only I can find a guy who doesn't think we are "dating" after 2 dates or a guy who picks his nose;)